



Preparing a child to transition from primary to secondary school, education can be tricky. Some children may thrive in a new setting, whilst others may feel overwhelmed by the prospect.
Here are some tips and advice on what you can do to support a worried child on their transition into secondary school education.
Most children will have already by now had a taster day at their new secondary school, however, visiting another time may be comforting and valuable to them. This will give them the opportunity to better understand the layout of their new school and may relieve anxiety.
If this is not possible (as it is currently the summer holidays) then do dummy runs with the child to the school to help them to become more familiar with the route. By looking at ways to reduce their worries, this will keep a dialogue open between yourself and the child so that if they need help they will feel confident enough to come to you for support.
The child may have gone to Scouts, Football Club and School with the same set of friends throughout primary education. The idea of making new friends at a new school can seem a daunting scenario. Unfortunately, there is no knowing whether your child will have known friends in their classes.
There are ways to prepare a child for making new friends, for example, signing them up for a Sports Camp during the summer holidays. This experience will teach them how to interact with new children and can help build their confidence and self-esteem in new settings.
Additional tip: If you can, we'd recommend encouraging the child to sign up for extra curriculum activities once at secondary school (if they want to). This can help further develop their social skills in a new setting. But remember, though, any extra activities they participate in must not affect their homework.
Back when the child was at primary school, they would have had a structured day under the guidance of one set teacher. Once a child goes to secondary school, a level of independence will be set, including travelling to and from different classrooms to be taught several subjects by different teachers. Getting homework done on time, making sure all the correct books are packed and the responsibility for being on time for classes, are just some of the things your child will need to deal with.
To prepare a child for a new level of independence, we'd recommend encouraging the child to take ownership of certain parts of their lives, for example, managing a task at home. This will help them to develop time management skills as well as support them in their first steps into becoming independent.
Secondary school comes with more challenges, especially as this is the period within their lives where they are more likely to become more rebellious.
The key is to set fair boundaries, for example, day to day routines. These boundaries need to be clearly communicated with the child so that they understand was is required from them. If issues arise then listen without passing judgement and reaffirm the boundaries without being dismissive. Keeping the communication open is crucial to maintain a healthy and positive relationship with teenagers.
It is natural as a parent, guardian or carer to feel overwhelmed by your child's transition to secondary school. The move can be challenging, however, being supportive and keeping a dialogue between your both is key to ensure the experience is an enjoyable one.
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