March 16th marks Young Carers Action Day which is a nationwide event that aims to raise awareness of the issues that can affect young carers and the importance of their roles.
Here at The Island, we play an important role in supporting young carers living in York. Most of the young carers we work with have low self-esteem, struggle with their confidence and experience high levels of anxiety.
To mark #YoungCarersActionDay, we thought we’d share with you some facts about young carers and what you can do to help them through our mentoring services.
A young carer is anyone under the age of 18 who helps to care for a family member or friend who has a physical or mental health condition or who misuses drugs or alcohol. In the UK, it is estimated that there are 800,000 young carers – though many young people may not even be aware they are classed as carers.
Young carers often take on responsibilities such as managing the home, collecting medicines, shopping or caring for younger siblings as well as the pressures that young people experience on a day-to-day basis. They could be supporting a parent, sibling, other family member or even a friend of the family in their lives.
The extra responsibilities of being a young carer can take their toll on a young person. Although many young carers cope well and find caring for others rewarding, it can be extremely challenging for others.
According to Young Minds, young carers miss an average of 48 days of school due to their responsibilities and 68% of young carers report being bullied as a direct result of their role. The Children’s Society found that 1 in 3 young carers has a mental health issue and 87% of young carers do not receive proper support when moving into adulthood.
Young carers can also develop skills that they could never have learned in school or college. It’s important to remember there can be positive aspects to caring that can enrich lives alongside the obvious challenges.
The Island is committed to supporting young carers, in fact, 8% of our existing mentees were referred to the Island as young carers and that number is set to rise as lockdown restrictions are lifted. Many of these young carers are struggling with the additional pressures of caring for someone at home while managing their own mental health and wellbeing. They can feel overwhelmed and isolated, particularly during the pandemic when they have been out of school and may not be able to see extended family or friends. Having a mentor can make a real difference for young carers and give them time to be themselves, unlock their potential and build their self-esteem.
One of our young mentees, Susan, says “The Island has been a lifeline for me and has taught me many new skills. I used to have a lot of friends at school but becoming a carer for my dad changed that. I felt lonely but working with my mentor has helped me to feel more positive about the future. I aspire to become a hairdresser, so my mentor is currently helping me to work on my social skills so that I can become more sociable. Alison (the mentor) says that social skills are important in hairdressing, so she is setting me weekly goals to help me come out of my shell. The Island has really helped me, and I feel without it that I would have become more unhappy and unable to cope.”
There are so many ways that you can help young carers who use our mentoring services. Our mentoring services have proven time and time again that they can be tailored to suit a wide range of challenges that a child or young person may face.
Volunteer: Becoming a one-to-one volunteer mentor at The Island is the greatest gift that you can give to a young carer. As a volunteer mentor, you will provide a young carer with 52 weeks’ worth of support so that they can take positive steps forward within their lives. Mentoring is completely flexible around your existing commitments and offers an invaluable experience for those thinking of going into a career in the education or youth sector. No experience is required as full training will be provided. To find out more about volunteering, click here.
Make a donation through The Island Pledge: Earlier this year, we set up The Island Pledge to be able to guarantee mentoring services for the most vulnerable of Island mentees. By donating £15 through the pledge, you will be able to guarantee a weeks’ worth of mentoring for a young carer. To make a pledge, click here.
Set up a standing order: Sending a regular donation to our charity means that we can forecast long-term costs for our mentoring programmes. Whether you can make a monthly donation of £1, £10 or £100, every penny would really help make a difference in the lives of those who really need it. If you would like to support a young carer through your standing order, then simply let the team know and we will ensure the donation is directed to the services that we provide for young carers. Click here to set up a monthly standing order.
If you have any other suggestions on how you would like to support young carers who use our services then please click here to get in touch.
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